Budgeting beginner? Here are 10 budgeting tips that all the experts agree on!

This is part #2 in a 5-part series. Your Ultimate Guide on How to Budget. Each week I will release a new chapter in this series, and by the end, you will know how you can finally be successful at budgeting!

Part One: What You Have to do When You are Planing on Starting a Budget
Part Two: Budgeting Beginner? Here are 9 tips that you HAVE TO know! (you’re here)
– Part Three: The Top 7 Proven Budgeting Methods
– Part Four: It’s a Better Budget
– Part Five: The 10 Budgeting Mistakes That You Don’t Want to be Making!

Everyone it seems has the “secret formula” for budgeting success. I’m here to call BS. There is no “one way” to budget, there are lots of ways to budget, and the formula isn’t so secret. You just need to find the right budgeting method that works for you! Yet, what I can tell you is that there are some specific ways to set yourself up for success. I am going to go through #10 of the best budgeting tips that will you be successful with whatever budget method you choose!

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Budgeting Tips? What are we talking about here?

Tip = a small but useful piece of practical advice. 

I have been budgeting for at least ten years, and I have learned a lot over that timeframe! In my first few years, the attempt was rather lame and halfhearted. Then I experimented with different money saving strategies to see what worked. It’s been in the past seven years that I’ve really honed down my family’s budget to be able to work for us by bringing us closer to our goals! I want to share with you the lessons I learned and the personal budgeting tips that have held up over time, so you don’t waste precious time and can get to your goals faster!

Top 10 Best Budgeting Tips

1. Manage expectations 

I know we talked about getting your head straight in the last chapter Your Ultimate Guide on How to Budget Series: Part One – Budget Planning, but this small shift is one of the best budgeting tips for you to implement!

This one is tough, as I used to struggle with this a lot. I would say, “This is going to be the BEST XYZ EVER!” and undoubtedly something went wrong, and I was crushed. If I went into things saying, “This is going to be good, and I may need to adjust or tweak things.” Then I wouldn’t be so down when things didn’t go well. It’s the same with budgeting.

Remembering budgeting is simple: it’s addition & subtraction. It’s the execution part of the budget that is hard. Being mentally prepared to make changes on the fly can go a long way!

2. Be realistic with your spending

In a similar vein with managing expectations, you need to be realistic with yourself about your current habits. You aren’t immediately going to save 50% of your income. By all means, try if you want to, but don’t strap your budget down so far that it never had a chance to succeed in the first place.

The best way to make sure that you’re realistic with your budget categories is to analyze what you’ve spent the last few months. Try adding up 2-3 categories over the past three months and then average it out. The most significant chunk of our extra spending is with food (groceries & eating out), clothing, and entertainment (subscriptions, movies, hobbies).

If you total it up and your math says that you averaged spending $624 in food for the past few months, then you should…

a) Recalculate. Always double-check your math!

b) If you know you go overboard every month eating out and it would be easy to cut down the spending, then maybe go with $400 as a starting point. If you write down $150 for this category, you are going to be in a world of hurt come month’s end, and feel horrible about your results.

Remember the $400 is a “starting point,” you’re not tied to it forever, and depending on the budget method you pick, and how it calculates, you may need to go down a bit further.

3. Be humble

Adding on to being realistic is to be modest with your “wants.” Be realistic about what is actually a need. As much as you like going to the gym, it is not a genuine “need.” Unless you are a professional bodybuilder, and the gym is your office and your paycheck.

You can run for free outside, and you can weight lift for free (Have you seen Rocky IV? He used a huge rock and a wooden wagon to train). Yes, a gym membership is nice, but it’s not necessary.  


  • home insurance
  • phone
  • gas/electric
  • food
  • water/sewer

Not Necessary:

  • gym
  • manicures
  • eating out
  • buying books
  • Netflix

When budgeting, you list your necessary items first, the things you have to pay for, and then go down in importance. Sad to say, but gyms and nails are down at the bottom of the list.

4. Be flexible

Your first attempt at budgeting probably won’t be a smash hit. (sorry) This is totally and 100% normal! You will mess up, and learn, tweak something, and try it again. Probably adjust something else, tweak another thing, and try again. What you need to focus on doing is to keep trying! DON’T QUIT! I mentioned that there are many different budgeting methods out there; you just need to find the way that works for you!

Honestly, the last sentence, “You just need to find the right budget for you.” is probably the most important budgeting tip of all.  

If it comes down to your budget with just not enough coming in and too much going out, you need to be flexible on the things you can cut to make it all work. If your partner cuts out his weekly $30 poker night with the guys, then you need to be ready to offer up your $35 manicure. It’s a give and take process on both sides of the road.

5. Track & write it all down

If you are brand new to budgeting, no matter the method of the budget, the coach will probably have you start tracking your spending, to see where your money is going. You don’t want to adjust any spending here; you want to get an accurate picture of what your spending habits are.

Yes, you can use apps to track your spending, like Mint or YNAB. But what the experts don’t tell you is that by using apps you are cheating yourself of really absorbing the info and understanding it.

What should you do instead of using apps? You should handwrite it. (WTH?) Yup, the act of writing something drills the information down deeper into your brain (figuratively, of course) and helps you process the information, and retain it for later use.

NPR did a review of a study published in Psychological Science, Mueller of Princeton University and Oppenheimer of the University of California, Los Angeles who sought to test how note-taking by hand or by computer affects learning.  “When people type their notes, they have this tendency to try to take verbatim notes and write down as much of the lecture as they can. The students who were taking longhand notes in our studies were forced to be more selective — because you can’t write as fast as you can type. And that extra processing of the material that they were doing benefited them.(source)

Now I know that note-taking is different than writing your latest purchase down on a sheet of paper. But trust me, there is something visceral about writing down that you spent “$76.47 at Taco Joe’s Margarita House”!

Am I trying to shame you? No. I love tacos (guacamole even more). Going there is totally okay, just as long as you budget for it!  

A great way to track your finances is to use a budget planner, those mini-books or folios where you have everything you need in one easy to use guided resource! Be sure to check out my review of the top 15 best budget planners!

How we learn best

It’s somewhat similar to the concept of the learning pyramid from old school education. Some may argue that the learning pyramid is out of date, but honestly, it just makes sense. The more you do something in different and more engaging ways, then the more you process, retain, and can recall the information, and use it to make better decisions going forward.

Learning Pyramid

But handwriting it, really gets you to think & process that transaction, did I need that? Could I have gone without? Was it worth it? What can I do differently next time?  

Sometimes people even get to the point where they don’t buy anything because they don’t want to write it down. Maybe they felt guilty about the purchase? Perhaps they knew their money could be better used somewhere else. Whatever the reason, I would consider it a win using this easy budgeting tip!

Don’t worry; you don’t need to handwrite everything down forever. Once you get through the beginning, have a good rhythm, and aren’t impulse buying on every day that ends in “y,” you are totally good to use apps.

If you want to see some of the more obscure skills that you need to learn to be a good budgeter then check out this best budgeting skills post the “skills” may suprise you!

What do I do for my family’s budget?  I have been budgeting and tracking the same way for the past four years. I use excel, its what makes sense in my brain and I’m successful at it. But when I started, it was with a pen and paper.

To help you get started, I have created a super simple, one-page budget template and accompanying budget worksheets that will take care of all your budgeting needs. It’s very straightforward, easy to use, and doesn’t take a lot of time. The main monthly budgeting template is broken into sections…

Non-negotiable expenses
Negotiable expenses

That’s it. It sounds easy because it is. Click here to grab the super simple budgeting template.

 6. Limit “how” you spend your money

One of my favorite acronyms in the world is “KISS.” Keep It Simple Stupid. The simpler you keep things, the easier it will be to track & monitor your money. For example, if you take cash out of the ATM, use credit card #1, and use credit card #3 for another thing, use PayPal and then Venmo, I’m sure you can see how easy it is to lose track of your spending.

Do yourself a favor and pick 1 (or at max 2) ways for your money to flow out of your bank account. The best method for people who are new to budgeting and sometimes overspend is to use cash envelopes. Because when it’s gone, it’s gone — no more money. If you are good at not overspending and want to keep better track of your money, then pick a single rewards type of credit card. The best option (aka the one that you will most likely use) is a straightforward cashback credit card.

These could be considered easy budgeting tips, but their more like hacks. Hacks are “a strategy or technique for managing one’s time or activities more efficiently.”

Budgeting Hack #1:  For partners, some credit card companies allow you to have one account, but with two different credit card numbers (one for each spouse), so when the bill comes, it’s already split up by each person’s card. We have USAA, and ours does this automatically. It makes bill reconciling super easy. A huge time saver!

Budgeting Hack #2:  Or maybe you have two credit cards (always a good idea, in case something happens to one card). Put all your basics like utilities and insurance on one card, and then all your discretionary spending on the other card. Then when you pay your bills, it’s already all segmented out for you. Another big time saver!

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7. Remember your money goals

When writing out your budget, and you’re finding it hard to trim down your spending, remember your money goals. In fact, remember your goals in general!  

I want to draw attention to the fact that these are personal budgets, for which they should be extremely personal!  Your money goals should be your own, not someone else’s!

Maybe you’d like to read more books? Well, if that’s one of your goals then perhaps you can cut your cable/Hulu/Netflix subscriptions? Cutting these line-item expenses would get you closer to your goal of reading more books (because you’re not on the couch binge-watching anymore), and you’re using the money to help you save for a down payment for your first home. BAM! Two goals!

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8. Make it a routine

Routines are probably the most boring yet most effective way to get good at something. Yup, truth. Routines and habits are how you get good at something! You practice!


  • minimum – put all your receipts in one place
  • A+ student – log your expenses in your spending log/tracker

Weekly : 

Spend 20 minutes logging purchases and looking over what you spent money on the week before. Don’t let this pile up for weeks; if you have questions, you’ll have a hard time remembering the details.  

Note any slip-ups or overages, think about why you overspent, and come up with a game plan for next time a similar situation rolls around. Give yourself some grace and move on. Do this on a set day/time each week! Like Sunday night after you clean the kitchen.  

Don’t forget to adjust +/- for the next week’s spending depending on how you did this past week. 


Have a date night with yourself, or for you and your partner, if you budget together. Do your budget first then plan something fun for afterward. Or if your favorite treat is a chocolate cupcake, get one and set it aside for after you do your monthly budget review! Nom nom!

Look over what you earned & what you spent. How did you do? Be honest; no one else is going to see. If you’re not honest with yourself or you make lame excuses, then you’re not going to get very far. Do you need to adjust categories? Do you need to find a cheaper option on getting to work (carpool or mass transit vs. driving?) Ask yourself (or your partner) the hard questions and be prepared to offer an honest answer in return.

Tracking your progress is a great way to see how you are trending with your goals! Have you saved more every month? Have you paid down your debt more every month? Not sure? Then you need to grab your financial progress tracker so you can see it all in black & white!

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9. Be organized

In order to make budgeting as stress-free as possible, you need to make it easy on yourself! Like, super easy. No one likes this personal budgeting tip but it’s often one of the most important for your sanity.

Put all your bills in one spot, or in one email file, and put all your receipts in one spot, so when you go to make a new budget or reconcile last months you’re not searching all over the place for your info! Such a time suck, and it stresses you out when you can’t find stuff!

You also need to be organized with your spending! You need to know what’s coming up that you may need to spend money on. Things like…

  • birthdays
  • holidays
  • annual subscription renewals
  • car registration

Some people refer to these type of items as being great for sinking funds. (I happen to agree.) With sinking funds your never going to have that one off expense that totally derails your budget. It’s like a safety net, you can check out the guided workbook here, Sinking Funds Simplified.

Budgeting Hack #3:  You should also be looking at which months have five weeks vs. four. As this impacts your pay (if you get paid bi-weekly), and can impact spending for that month’s bills. For example…

If you spend $7 at lunch every day during a four week month, that’s $7 x 5 days a week = $35 x 4 weeks in a month = $140 in lunches.

If that month has 5 weeks then,
$7 x 5 days = $35 x 5 weeks = $175 in lunches.

Now $35 may seem a small amount to go over, but when you add in everything for that five-week month then that adds up! Once you get good with your spending, you can make it easy and average every month to being 4.33 weeks (52 weeks a year / 12 months). So knowing some months, you’ll go over by a small amount and other months you’ll be under a bit.

10. Tweak, adjust & do it again!

This one goes hand in hand with our #1 tip of managing expectations, you probably won’t get it 100% right on the first go. That’s okay, that’s normal. Just don’t take the easy way out and quit. That’s just lame. Don’t be lame.

Keep going!

At the end of the day

Know that budgeting is a process; it’s a process for everyone! There is nothing “wrong” with you if you don’t get it right. Use the personal budgeting tips here, and you’ll have a much better shot at getting your numbers closer to your spending goals!

Just don’t quit! Keep tweaking; keep trying!

Next week, in part three of Your Ultimate Guide on How to Budget, we’ll go over the most popular budgeting methods and help you decide which one might work best for you! Most budgets contain the same key ingredients, but the execution can vary depending on your own personal situation. For example, you probably wouldn’t buy a convertible if you live in Alaska, yes it’s a vehicle, and it gets the job done, but there are better vehicles for you! It’s the exact same with your budgeting method!

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Which money budgeting tip is your favorite that you will try today?