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We’ve all been there… “I hate my job!” If you haven’t ever said that, either you’re a liar or you part of a different kind of 1%!  

Yes, we all love moments of our jobs, but we’ve all wished we had more flexibility, be it either in when we work or to stretch our creative boundaries in what we produce. Then the comes thought comes to you…

“I could do this on my own! I should be my own boss!”  

But how do you start your own business?

Stick around because this post is going to walk you through exactly that, how to start an online business in five simple steps!

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Who should put on the entrepreneurial cape?

I’ll tell it to you straight; this path isn’t for everyone. Even though I thought it was for me, there were many times where I was overwhelmed, tired, frustrated, lacking confidence, funds, and knowledge to the point where I thought, “I should never have started this! This is too bleep bleeping hard!”

I’m sorry to tell you this, but even the most fantastic business owners have this thought every now and then. Now I’m not saying that I am a fantastic business owner; what I am saying is that everyone feels this way at some (or multiple) points.

If you’re not scared off, then let’s go deeper. Starting your own business is for you if you have a burning passion for something, and you want to share it with others. Or if you have a fantastic new product, or if you’re going to do something in a completely different way than anyone else. 

Starting your own business isn’t for you if you just simply don’t like your job. You need a much stronger reason than this to get through all the challenges you will face!

Boss Moms are, and female entrepreneurs are on the rise!

The good news is that female entrepreneurs are killing it these days! I did a great piece where I interviewed some aspiring boss moms and some very well respected women (in the online industry) and asked them about their money goals. It was a sneak peek behind the curtain of their business, and it was truly inspirational!  

I also included some impressive stats and on women-owned businesses! Here’s a short highlight of those numbers…

  1. The US has 12.3 million women-owned businesses.
  2. US women-owned businesses generate $1.8 trillion a year.
  3. 40% of US businesses are women-owned.
  4. Women started 1,821 net new businesses every day in 2018. 

To see more numbers and get some guaranteed inspiration, check out Smart Money Goals from Mamas Making it Happen!

Entrepreneur characteristics

You need to be determined and have a passion for what you do! Other entrepreneur skills include resilience, daring, resourceful, a problem solver, optimistic, being a good planner, and bonus points if you have a knack for inspiring others!

The 5 Steps to Starting Your Own Business

1. What kind of online business should you start?

There are a few options on a type of business

  • product-based (you want to sell something)
  • service-based (you want to do something for someone else)

You can be either

  • brick and mortar store (an actual location with a building)
  • online (work from anywhere and help anyone around the world who wants to buy from you). You can have your own online storefront, or sell on established markets like Etsy or Creative Market. Usually, these are referred to as home based businesses.

Figuring these out can take time, and you can change your mind multiple times! Basically, in the beginning, you need to flexible and be fluid about how your business will actually show up. Yet, don’t be flaky and indecisive. There’s a difference. When I first started, I thought I would be a virtual assistant, helping other entrepreneurs achieve their dreams. Yet after a few clients, I realized that the business model of going out and searching for clients wasn’t for me. As a natural introvert, I don’t really like to reach out and talk to people selling my services.

If you don’t know what kind of small business to start, then do this!

For some of you, you may be stumped as to what to actually do/sell. This happens, don’t worry, you have some time to figure it out!  

One of the easiest (and most profound) ways to start drilling down is to figure out your ikigai! That’s Japanese for your “reason for being.” I talked about identifying your financial why & how to find your ikigai. I feel that both of these steps are essential for finding your calling!  

Let’s just do a super quick rundown of what ikigai actually means for us here at this stage, and you can see how it will help you drill down and identify some viable business ideas.

  1. Your Passion: What you love
  2. Your Mission: What the world needs
  3. Your Vocation: What you are good at
  4. Your Profession: What you can get paid for
Ikigai for starting your own business

2. Starting your small business as an entity

There are a few options for you to choose from, and depending on your business model, you may start with one designation and grow, maybe needing to change into something else. Let’s go through the very basics of what each entails (there are many more details and intricacies, so research this thoroughly as to what your state requires). The below bullet points are just to give you a general idea of what you’re looking at.

  • Sole proprietor:  most of us start here, as it’s the simplest. There’s no formal procedure with minimal paperwork, and you can file under your own taxes. Personal and business assets/expenses flow back and forth.
  • General partnership:  similar to the first type, personal and business assets are fluid, tax is paid at the personal level, yet there is more than one of you. Your assets are divided up by % of ownership.
  • Limited liability partnership:  this is similar to a general partnership. Yet, this business has filed paperwork with the state, and you are not legally responsible for “negligence, omissions, malpractice, wrongful acts or misconduct” of the other partners.
  • Limited liability company:  it offers liability protection similar to a large corporation, yet it provides tax options similar to a partnership. It has more flexibility than a corporation and easier to operate. Business assets are separate from personal.
  • S corporation:  it is operated like a c corporation but taxed like a partnership. There are strict rules and limitations to having and running an S corp.
  • C corporation:  this is what we generally picture as a “traditional business.” Thre is a clear line of distinction between personal and business assets and has limited liability for shareholders. This comes with increased expenses, more rules, and more hands in the cookie jar.

So what do you choose? You should probably talk to a professional, but if you’re just starting, and it’s only you starting this business, you can probably start as a sole proprietor.  

You also need to check with your county and the city you live in, as they may have requirements for when you need to file with them (say if you make over $500 you need to file as a business with your city).

3. Things you need to start an online business

Let’s talk more nuts & bolts. As in what do you actually “need” when starting a business? Let’s assume that you want to start as a blogger/freelancer (as you’re great at logo design and branding). You will need a website (to showcase your portfolio) and an email address to connect with clients. That means…

  • Domain name:  (basically the URL that people type to reach your site) This is a minor investment, and I got my domain for under $20. But you will need to renew annually. Check out NameCheap or GoDaddy. I’m sure there are more places as well.

  • A website theme:  (this is how your website looks & flows) There are free and paid versions, and everyone agrees that you should make a one-time investment to buy a theme. The functionality is so much more flexible, and since it’s a paid product, the creator will most likely be making updates to it to keep it running smoothly. I bought my theme from Bluchic, and it’s beautiful! I also love supporting small business owners (it’s a husband & wife team)!

  • Website hosting:  (this is making your website live & active online) This is where the experts disagree, there are lots of good places (a few bad ones too), and many program levels in each. Your choice depends on how much content (and how often) you’ll be putting on your site, and how fast you want your website to load. A common phrase touted in the online world that if your site takes longer than 3 seconds to load, you will lose a lot of viewers, and no one wants that!

    I have hosting through Siteground and have had nothing but great experiences with their product and am super impressed with their level of customer service!  I am non-techy by nature, so I have used their online support quite a bit and have been impressed with each and every person that helped me! 

  • Email service provider:  You need a way to communicate with potential clients, so you need this service. Trust me; you don’t want to use a Gmail account if you want your business to seem professional or be taken seriously. I’m sorry, it’s true, we’re judgers by nature, and an email of [email protected] just won’t cut it.

    The good news is that you can use the free program levels of a few providers. I use Mailerlite (free up to 1000 subscribers) and am happy here again with their product, their training videos & documents, and their customer support! Later on, as my business grows, I’ll need to upgrade. Other providers are Mailchimp, ConvertKit, ActiveCampaign, and more!

  • Website legal pages:  There is one investment that you may be tempted to use a free version is with your legal pages. DON’T! You don’t want to end up in court over something and find out that you’re not protected at all, and now subject to a fat fine, or being sued. If there’s one place you need to invest in, this is it due to the potential significance and level of ramifications.

    You will need a Privacy Policy, Website Terms & Conditions, GDPR, and California Privacy Rights documents. Your website will also need a cookie disclaimer and affiliate disclosure (these last two are free but are a must-have).

    I purchase all my legal documents from The Contract Shop, an extremely reputable business that caters specifically to the online community! They have tons of different types of legal pages and contract templates (all dependant on what you do).

A good general rule for everything you buy relating to a website is don’t buy the bottom of the barrel program/services. Yet, you don’t need the top tier everything; it’s too expensive, and your site being small won’t see the benefits of the upgraded product. So that leaves the middle of the road, which is a good place to be in the beginning.

4. Business planning & day to day running of your home based business

Now, this is the fun part, the actual planning of your day to day stuff! You don’t need to have all the answers now, but you need to be aware that these pieces exist and that at some point, you’ll need to devote time & attention to it. Don’t worry, your business plan isn’t set in stone, you can change it as you grow and shift, but the basic components are…A monetization strategy:  this is how you will make money, what are you selling? A product, a service, a focus on affiliate marketing (promoting other people’s goods for a % of the sale), advertising revenue, etc. What all the experts agree on is that you need to diversify your income streams. Don’t put all your hopes into one single way of making money.

It takes a long time to establish a website (2 years minimum), so maybe you need to focus on earning money in a way that’s not your first choice. Like being a virtual assistant doing social media management while your blog is in its infancy.

A marketing strategy:  This one can be confusing for those starting out, as it can be as simple as you want or as complicated as you want. Keep in mind this will evolve quite a bit over time. It will take you time to learn platforms, it’s impossible (yes impossible) to do it all, and do it well from the beginning (unless your previous 9-5 job was very similar).

Start where your ideal customer is at (Pinterest, Facebook, Instagram, email marketing, networking, etc.), and then add on another platform as you master the first.

An operating plan:  this is the loosest of all the strategies. This is how you will do your day to day work. Will you work on your business on Tuesdays, Fridays & Sunday afternoons? Or will you work 10 hours a week, two hours a night after the kiddos go down? Will you still work 9-5 for awhile while you get your business more established? Or will you go down to part-time, or quit your job outright? What do you need to do each day, each week, each month?

It sounds like a lot, and honestly, it is. Anyone who says it’s easy, or super fast is lying, and they have an ulterior motive behind their sweet talk! The good news is that there are lots of great resources out there for you!

A learning plan:  I am sorry to tell you this, but you don’t even know what you don’t know! Does that make sense? There is SO MUCH to learn about the online world it is dizzying! To add to this, just for fun, everyone usually has different opinions about things. What is the best product/procedure/social media/everything! Who are you to believe?

Luckily there are some fantastic people with hearts of true teachers! You just need to find the person who teaches the way you learn best, and who are in a similar niche as you. (A niche is a specific area with which you will be working in or catering to.) For example, you could be in the mom blog, or lifestyle blog, or DIY crafter, or gardening, or cooking & recipe niche.

There are so many different niches and so many different levels. You could be a coach or a blogger, or an online course creator, and so on and on! If your a mom blogger (or your target audience is Moms), you cannot go wrong with have Suzi Whitford from Start a Mom Blog! Honestly, she is kind, patient, funny, encouraging, smart, and thorough! Everything you could ever want or need in a blog guru! Here are her signature courses so you can see all of her specialties. Any of them would be a worthy investment!

She also has a free blog plan, that over 40,000 people have taken! So don’t miss out on this chance to learn from one of the industry’s best!

YET, I do realize that we cannot all invest in learning like we want to! Especially after buying everything for your website! She has a great FREE course to get you started on your journey, this goes over the basics, there’s an option to opt-in to this free course at the very bottom of her page! You won’t be disappointed! She has helped over 50,000 people through her courses (yes, that the number of students she’s enrolled) and her students sing her praises!

A word of caution to aspiring online entrepreneurs

Yes, there are a lot of free trainings, printables, eCourses, and such that you can sign up for and learn from. I did it this way, bootstrapping they call it. Please, please, oh please don’t do this. I wasted so much time, effort, mental bandwidth, and not to mention printer ink learning this way!

There are sooooooooo many who claim to be teachers, experts and such, and some of them may indeed be. Yet, they may just have a way with words and make big claims. There is no independent third party regulator to be sure that people are telling the truth. Other excellent reasons are that…

  • Their info may be outdated. Established and professional bloggers update their free materials to keep them current, smaller bloggers usually don’t have the capacity to stay on top of things like this.
  • Their info may be specific and or successful to only a particular group of people or types of niches.
  • Their success could be due to a viral reason. Long-standing and ongoing success is much harder to come by. Anyone can go viral, it doesn’t make them amazing overall, nor their teachings gospel.
  • You will need to find a lot of different gurus to get the full picture. Only a handful of established bloggers can teach a wide variety of topics that you’ll need to know about. This means you’ll wade through a lot of different opt-ins flooding your inbox, and they teach in different ways, which makes it harder for you to pivot from one topic to the next.  

    Tracie Fobes is another fantastic teacher, who wants nothing more than for you to achieve your big dreams! She has so much experience in the online world, I can confidently say that you would be making a mistake if you didn’t check out her offerings!

    I mentioned above that I’m not a fan of free resources, but Tracie’s Profitable Blogging Roadmap is the exception! Yes, it’s free, but as a true professional in this business, she updates it, and makes sure that it’s packed with value! A good thing about this is that if you like Tracie’s teaching style (there are lots of ways people teach, and you won’t love everyone’s style) then she has lots of resources for you to continue your learning!
  • Yes, there are some smaller online business owners that are considered experts in their field. No, they don’t teach you everything, as the previous bullet said was ideal. But for their particular topic, they need to be focused, detailed, and entrenched in that topic.

    For example, if you had heart problems, you want to go to a cardiologist, not a general practitioner. Three examples of this are
    • Debbie Gartner with SEO for your website. Learning SEO is one of the best investments you can make with your blog, and Debbie’s bundle of her two eBooks is your best bet in the industry! Bundle: Easy On-Page SEO + Easy Backlinks for SEO
    • Monica Frose with expertise on Pinterest Promoted Pins
    • Kate Doster for her crazy successful email marketing juju!

      These women don’t need to be experts in everything; they are badasses in their field (and everyone knows it)!
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The best way to learn about starting your own online business

If I could go back and do it all over again, I would absolutely invest in a comprehensive course about starting my own online business! It would have saved me a lot (A LOT) of time, confusion, discouragement, heartache, and doubt! These are things that I want you to pass by. I want you to wave at these things as you fly over the top of them, onto the promised land of online business serenity! That sounds like a big promise, and I can’t guarantee that it will be 100% better.  But it will be a lot easier and a lot faster!

One amazing tool that I can wholehearted recommend (besides Suzi’s courses above) is Ultimate Bundles Grow Your Business Bundle. What’s a bundle? Fair question, as you don’t see this often. Yet Ultimate Bundles has established itself to be the best in this business & product model!  

A bundle is where they compile a large number of products/items (typically in digital formats, like eBooks, printables, eCourses, summits, and more), and combine them into one product that you get at an AMAZING discount!

These are all products that have been vetted through their quality & approval process. You can’t submit garbage to it and have it be selected to be included in the Bundle! So as a buyer, you know the products are good!

In this Bundle, there are 35 eCourses, worth over $18,000 (if purchased individually, but no one would actually do that!) which you can get for $497. A 97% discount! (Don’t forget about the free bonuses too!)

Even though it’s a large discount, I do know that $497 is still a lot of money! So I want you to be sure that starting a business is really, truly, deeply, something that you want to do! Or maybe, you’ve been thinking about it for a while now, and this is the thing that will make you go ahead and jump, then awesome! (Sometimes we just need a little push huh!)

Yes, it sounds crazy and 97% off sounds too good to be true. Usually, I would say it is too good to be true. But I’ve bought a few different bundles from them before, and I am impressed with what I got!  I mean it, I was really impressed!

What else should you know about the Grow Your Business Bundle?

Grow Your business Ultimate Bundle mock up

I don’t want you to feel like 100% of the items will apply to you, that’s impossible, as its a product for a variety of aspiring business owners. Yet, if only 25% of the products relate to you and your business, then it is still an excellent investment! Also, don’t feel like you need to go through everything to get your money’s worth. You shouldn’t, as it would be too much information for you to learn, process, and apply to your situation.

In my previous purchases, I have given myself a long time to learn and apply the teachings to my life & business. What I did instead is I separated the items into a few categories…

  • learn immediately (within 0-3 months)
  • to learn soon (3-6 months)
  • not a priority, learn later (6-12 months)
  • not applicable to me, set aside, (come back and review these in 6 months)

The Grow Your Business Bundle includes eCourses around…

  • Branding 
  • Business Acquisition 
  • Business Growth & Operations 
  • Content Creation 
  • Creating Your Offer 
  • Customer/Client Acquisition & Retention  
  • Finance & Tax Strategies
  • Leadership & Personal Growth 
  • Marketing 
  • Optimizing Ads 
  • Product Development 
  • Profit Margins & Revenue 
  • Public Speaking 
  • Sales 
  • Traffic & Lead Generation

5. Do the Work

Believe it or not, now you just need to do what you said you would do. Then rinse & repeat! Yes, you will probably need to tweak and adjust (everyone does). But the main thing here is not to quit! Yes, you will be discouraged at times and may want to quit, but don’t!  

Take a short break, analyze, and adjust as needed and then get back to it! Some things that you may want to consider if you’ve been at it for a while and not seeing the results that you want is to search out a business coach (please check, and double-check that they are reputable and have clients with positive results). Or search out a Mastermind, which is a small group of individuals at the same level as you to grow together.

At the end of the day

Starting your own online business is hard work. Don’t believe anyone who says it’s easy or fast! Yet there are things that you can do strategically to set yourself up for success! Always keep your reason for starting your business close to your heart and in the front of your mind! It is hard, but if you do it right, it will absolutely be worth it!  

Starting your own online business provides more freedom for your family, which is essential for Moms with kids! More importantly, it gives you the freedom to follow your passion and to make your life meaningful!  

And isn’t that what really living your life should be about?  

I think so! That’s why I’m here, writing these words to you. So thank you, thank you for letting me help you, teach you and guide you through the crazy amazing journey of starting your own business!

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