10 Best Sites for Getting Paid to Sext (+ Real Life Stories From Women Who Make $$$)

We’ve got the 10 best sexting jobs waiting for you + real-life stories from women in the industry who are making $$$

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What is sexting?

Sexting is the act of sending naughty text messages back and forth with a person you are interested in (or a client), all for fun.

How much can I make getting paid to flirt?

This is the big question, because will it be worth your time?

A text message can earn you between $0.10 and $0.15, whereas video chats pay between $.40 and $.50 per minute!

Plenty of experienced sexting operators have reported making close to $20-$30 an hour, while beginners only earn around $10 or so in hourly earnings – not too bad!

With experience, you can easily make up to $1,000 a week by talking on the phone with people who just want to hear a friendly voice. So if you’re looking for a fun way to make money and you like making people happy, then this could be a great opportunity!

10 best sexting sites

There are many sexting websites and apps that allow you to get paid to flirt. But we’re only going to go into detail with the top ten most popular ones.

You see, these sexting companies come and go quickly, so it’s best to work with a well-established company with a good reputation. So we’ll go through the top ten and then give you names of other companies out there so you can do more research if you want.

FlirtBucks

Flirtbucks is a great first-time platform, as it’s fairly tame (in comparison to other sites).

“This is not a “paid to date” program or an adult cam performer program. FlirtBucks does not aim to encourage you to do anything outside your comfort zone or to be anyone you’re not. We put you in full control of who you choose to chat with, how long, and what you choose to talk about.”

They do have some requirements to work on their site…

• Be at least 18 years of age or older (and be able to prove it with ID verification)
• Have access to a computer with a functioning webcam
• Be able to access the internet via a high-speed connection
• Have moderate typing skills (at least 40 WPM
• Be fluent in English
• They’re currently looking for people in the US, UK, Canada, and Australia

The longer you stay with the platform, the more you earn per minute…

• 0-3 months
  • Text chat: 10 cents
  • Video chat: 40 cents
• 3 – 6 months
  • Text chat: 12 cents
  • Video chat: 45 cents
• 6+ months
  • Text chat: 15 cents
  • Video chat: 50 cents

Lip Service

Lip Service is a platform where companies can hire you to talk to their clients. They are looking for people who speak different languages, so it’s a bonus if you’re multilingual!

You need to be 18 to be hired, but some positions require you to be 21 years old. You must be located in the US or Canada and have access to a computer with high-speed internet.

They’d love it if you are very engaging, animated, and reliable!

Arousr

Arousr is an app marketed to men to safely chat with 18+ women (no fake profiles or bots). This is an Android app (at this time), and it’s easy for them to download and get started (they get free credits when they sign up too).

It’s text chat and video chat, as well as good old-fashioned phone calls. People can favorite your profile so getting repeat customers is the goal.

As an Arousr chat host, you don’t have a work schedule to keep, but you must log in and use the platform once a month to keep your profile active. You can make…

• $.15 per text
• $.50 per minute for phone calls
• 40% on video calls

You get paid every Monday, direct deposit or wire, with a minimum payout of $100.

Real-Life Stories – Tips on Being a Top Chat Host

This excerpt is originally on Arousr’s blog and features Kikimiller with her best tips on being a top Chat Host on Arousr…

Kiki says, “I’ve been doing this for a long time! About six years. This work is second nature to me now, but it was a bit difficult in the beginning. It helps that I love to write and I’d like to think of myself as creative. I got the hang of things after a few months when I first started, and I’ve learned a lot of things over time that have improved my skills.”

“A lot of our customers have self-esteem issues or are very shy. If they’re giving you one word answers, don’t push them to contribute to the chat too hard… Figure out the gist of what they want and be more descriptive in your scenarios. You’re writing for two, basically, so it feels similar to just writing a short story live. I’ve had many guys who barely talk and I’m not sure they’re into it but afterwards will tell me I was fantastic.”

“You will need to decide for yourself what you will and will not do with customers. I will basically do everything except for what the site explicitly doesn’t allow or is illegal… if they’re asking for something that broaches your own boundaries, let them know in a polite way, and offer up something similar you could do that you’re comfortable with.”

Click here to read the full article…

SextPanther 

SextPanther is your more stereotypical sexting site; they aren’t pretending they’re high class and exclusive. It’s just straight-up naughtiness. Users log in, pay for credits and choose a “model” to talk to. (call, text, or video)

As a model, you have your profile and set your rates. So if you want to charge more, how are you bringing it? Do you role play, cosplay, fetish expert, or a sub/dom? They say that their top earners bring in $5,000 a week!

You must be located in US or Canada, and they like it if you already have a social media following. Maybe you can get started by selling feet pics? It’s a great low-pressure way to get started in this industry.

You can choose to accept phone calls or texts only. Here’s how you get paid, users of the site buy credits – one credit = $1. As a model, you get…

• 60% for text and media messages
• 75% for phone calls, video calls, and feed posts
• 80% for tips

You get paid 3-5 days after the payout period closes (the 1st and 15th of the month), with a minimum payout of $50 (if you don’t reach that, your balance is rolled over to the next payout period.

One of the unique aspects is that SextPanther has a model referral program. If you refer someone and they earn $100, then you get a $100 bonus!

Talktome

Talktome has been in the industry for 20 years, so they know the best ways to run in this business. They do phone calls, voicemails, text chat, video chat, webcams, and emails.

Talktome is nice, in that you are in control. You create your listings, rates, your flexible schedule and decide if you do/don’t want to engage with someone.

You can get paid via check, direct deposit, and prepaid debit cards (a nice option).

They don’t mess around with those that are only sort of interested, as you must pass a probationary 30-day period, where you have to use the sex chat line and have 300 conversations before your profile gets final approval and opens up to the platform. This might seem like a pain, but it’s really a quality control measure they have.

And since they’ve been in the business so long they have a lot of resources (open to the public) through their blog and guides. You can learn a lot of tips & tricks but checking out their advice. You can learn quick pick-up lines, tips on how to get people to open up, dirty talk 101, and more!

You also can earn from clients you bring to the platform. Once someone signs up with your link and they spend $50, then you get $50!

Real Life Stories – What does sexting look like

When you’re just starting out, it can be awkward to know how to sext, but what better way to learn than to see real-life messages. Talktome features real sexting conversations. However, we want to be PG, so let’s introduce you to snack censoring…

“Hey, baby you are hot!!!!!!

 Hello, sweetie… what’s up? 

You know what!

 I think I do, but I’d like you to tell me. 

You tell me!

 What do you want to know? 

What are you wearing?

 T-shirt and jeans, bare feet, red pedicure. 

Great, I love feet. But tell me about your KITCHEN.

 Black lace. Sheer and snug… (continued just below)…

 … Black lace. Sheer and snug

Are you HUNGRY?

 Of course I am.

Tell me where your UTENSILS are.

 Mmmm.. tell me where you want them.

Grab your TATER TOTS

 Way ahead of you, baby. I’ve been squeezing my TOTS when you type. 

 Should I pull on THE EASY TO OPEN FREEZER PACKAGE? (continued below)…

 … Should I pull on THE EASY TO OPEN FREEZER PACKAGE? 

No, wait. Tell me how it feels first. Rubbing your TATER TOTS.

 My TOTS feel great. Firm. Bouncy. Very sensitive.

 I like to graze my fingernails across my POTATO BARRELS.

 And then pinch my BARRELS as hard as I can. 

 (sometimes, I squeal!)

Can you imagine my hands gliding across your KITCHEN COUNTER?

 Your hands are rough (giggles) and strong and manly…”

You can read the whole (and uncensored) article here…

Phrendly

Phrendly is one of the more popular places to get paid to flirt online. And they market themselves as a place for lonely men to talk to women to get attention and boost their self-confidence. They state they have a 93% response rate (no other site has mentioned a response rate, so that’s interesting).

Overall, their site has a more professional feel; they value privacy (by hiding phone numbers) and offer lots of helpful information via their blog.

It’s texting, phone chat, or video calls with phrends in US & Canada. People pay to “share a drink with you,” and build friendships that way.

“The amount you earn for each interaction depends on the interaction type. You will keep $0.35/volley for sex chat, 70% of phone & video call earnings (after the $0.20/minute connection fee), and 90% of gifts.” Yet, they only pay direct deposit to a US-based bank account.

You have the option to promote your profile, and they say it’s well worth your time to be on page one, as “the top 20 users make up to 500% more on Phrendly.”

You can be paid every day (see that money ten days later) or be paid out once a month (again, see that money ten days later in your account).

If you love to talk, give advice, and have fast texting fingers, then be sure that you check out our master list of how to get paid to chat, with over 30 different places to make money.

Text121 Chat

Text121 Chat provides many text services for the adult industry, for both workers and companies. Kind of like a consulting firm almost.

As a sex chat operator for them, you can work anytime as they operate 24 hours a day.

“Candidates for our work at home phone jobs are required to have computer literacy with broadband internet access, MSN Messanger, IE, Windows Media Player and Adobe Acrobat Reader. Full training is given with continuous development and opportunities for career development.”

This is one of the few companies that say they provide training!

Their only work requirement (besides being 18) is that you commit to sending at least 2,000 messages a month. They do both text and phone services, and a bonus if you’re bilingual. Apply today, and they’ll get back to you in 1-3 days so you can start immediately!

MyGirlFund

MyGurlFund says that over 20,000 girls are on their site, which can be good and bad. Good because that means it’s popular, and bad because that means hefty competition.

“The great thing about mygirlfund is that you set your own boundaries, and you’re in full control of your earning potential.”

The site promotes the “community” aspect and markets itself as a good place to flirt with the girl next door. So more vanilla than some of the other sites. Getting paid to talk to lonely guys is a good starting place.

They state that sharing any personal info is strictly prohibited, and you, as the girl, are in charge of your privacy settings (which you can change at any time).

You can do video chat, text chat, and even upload your own photos and videos to sell. With all that, it’s been reported that girls can earn up to $40,000 a year!

Real Life Stories – The Life of a Webcam Girl

Wondering what it’s really like to work on a webcam? Let’s see what Michelle from ChatRecruit has to say.

“Many assume webcam modelling is just stripping for strangers on the internet in your spare time… despite what you might have been told, it doesn’t even have to involve taking your clothes off.”

“A lot of customers just want someone to talk to or connect with,” says Michelle M, a UK cam model with Chatrecruit. “So it often feels more like being a therapist, rather than a sex worker.”

“You can work hours that suit you from the comfort of your own bedroom,” reveals Michelle. “So it’s easy to juggle your other commitments and passions with your career.”

“A lot of women find camming helps them build confidence and self-esteem. And this in turn helps them attract a supportive partner and maintain a healthy love life.”

“I’ve made well over $100,000 dollars every year for the past 4 years with Chatrecruit,” reveals Michelle. “It’s great to make so much money doing something I love.”

“But that doesn’t mean the life of a webcam girl is easy. To earn big money, you have to put a lot of time and effort into promoting yourself, building a loyal fanbase, and providing excellent service.”

Click here to read the full article…

Chat Recruit

Chat Recruit is a UK-based company that covers adult webcam, adult chat, and psychic chat-based jobs.

Like all adult sexting jobs, you must be 18 years old and have ID verification. You can provide just one service or all the offerings, and you’ll be paid competitive rates on a regular payment schedule (direct deposit).

In addition to traditional adult chat services, they also offer a “social” aspect where you can be your own content creator and have a following (think OnlyFans style), which is becoming the trend. (These sites typically cut out the middle man, so instead of becoming obsolete, Chat Recruit provides a safe platform to stay in the loop).

TexKings

TexKings offers an online platform for all sorts of online chat jobs, not just adult chat (but most is). You must be 18 years old (verified with ID) and be able to type 25 WPM (don’t worry, that’s not too fast), and they’d like you to work 12-20 hours per week.

You can make decent money sexting on this platform as a phone sex operator or a text chat operator. It’s common for people to make around $500 a week here, which is pretty good for part-time effort.

Real Life Stories – Interview with Chat Host Angelll on getting started with sex chat

Okay, if you’ve read this far, you’re interested in how to get started. Let’s check out part of an interview on how to get started and succeed in the sex chat industry.

Q:  Okay, question number one, how long have you been into camming or sex chat in general? When did you get started? How did you get started?

A: Well, basically, I started when it was pandemic, but after I decided to search on it on Instagram, on the Internet, and I found this Arousr, and I found it kind of interesting because I can do what I like and earn money for it. Basically, from December on.

Q: What would you say makes you specifically Angell, a unique chat host. What is it about you that sets you aside from your average lady online?

A: Well, on Arousr, I’m not afraid of showing what my fantasy is, because in everyday life, I try to act normally, like kind of shy. And on Arousr, I bring my demons.

Q: What advice, Angell, would you give to other chat hosts on how to better engage with the members of Arousr online? So if a host is having some issues, maybe she doesn’t know how to start a conversation or how to get to that deeper level of a one on one connection? What advice would you give to someone like that?

A: Well, for me, the first and the most important rule is just to be yourself. Don’t pretend. Because if a person sees that you pretend and you’re not being yourself, they will just leave. So imagine you yourself talking to that person in real life. What would you ask? How would you behave? This is the same just on the Internet. So the first and the most important, as I mentioned, is just to be yourself. And this is my advice. Don’t pretend.

(This interview appears in full on Arousr)

Other sites when you can get paid to flirt

There are other places where getting paid to sext is easy, but I just wanted to take you through the top 10. Some of the places below may be a great opportunity (or they may be iffy); do your due diligence and research them fully.

Some of these are country-specific only (Canada, UK), so be sure to look for that info as well.

• All Things Worn offers lots, as you can sell your worn clothes as well as digit content and experiences – this is the sexting portion
• Tinder
• Plenty of Fish
• Match.com
• Dust
• Zoosk
• Grindr
• FanCentro
• Niteflirt
• OnlyFans
• ChatOperatorJobs
• Ashley Madison
• Together2Night
• Jolly.Me
• Mingle2
• Single Mom Locator
• Adult Staffing
• Textlicious
• Mydirtyhobby
• Boleyn Models
• Camgirl
• WhatsYourPrice
• Luxury Date
• Loveeto
• OneAmour

Getting paid by these sites can take a few weeks; always look for the payment terms on the site you’re interested in. But if you need to make cash quickly, then check out this post on how to make money fast (as in one hour)!

Why would someone ever text flirt for money?

The answer is simple: because it’s fun, and you can make good money sexting.

Sexting is a great way to relieve boredom or stress, and you can make some extra cash while doing it. It’s the perfect job for somebody who loves talking and making people happy.

I can be a good fit for someone who feels shy in person yet has fantasies they want to act on in a safe environment. Let’s dig into the best sexting jobs so you can start to make extra money online this week!

I’m curious, but I’m not sure I can do it

I know that sexting isn’t considered the “normal” way people make money. And there are people that will try and shame you out of your decision. But i also know that if you need cash quickly this is a good industry to get in on.

However, I also know that you may need to work up to sexting. So a great place to get started is to start selling your feet pics online. Don’t laugh; this is a legit thing! People pay good money for cute feet pics. You can read all about how to take good feet pics here. But if you want to get started, then check out our review on FeetFinder, or check out our pick for the best feet pic selling site right below…

Why would someone pay for flirting on text messages?

There are many reasons why people would pay for sexting. Some people are lonely and just want someone to talk to, while others may be frustrated and looking for a release. Whatever the case may be, there are plenty of customers out there who are willing to pay for your time.

5 Tips to Stay Safe as an Online Friend

When you’re getting paid to talk to lonely people, there’s an instant bad rep that comes with it. Yes, getting paid to be a virtual friend isn’t how people usually do it.

However, it’s always best to be cautious and observant in any new situation, so we have five must-follow tips for staying safe.

1. Stick to reputable websites

While many reputable websites can help you make new friends, there are also many scams, low-quality ones, or websites with ulterior motives.

So how can you tell the difference? Here are a few tips: First, look for websites that require users to verify their identity somehow. This may mean verifying your email address or uploading a copy of your ID.

Second, check out the website’s privacy policy to see how they protect your personal information. And finally, use your common sense – if something seems too good to be true, it probably is. By following these simple tips, you can stay safe and make lasting friendships online.

2. Protect your privacy

In this age of constant connection, it’s more important than ever to be aware of how you can protect your privacy. Here are a few simple tips:

• Be thoughtful about the information you share. You never want to give out information regarding your last name, address, or even your town.
• Don’t take pictures with easily identifiable landmarks in the background (if that’s your hometown).
• Don’t share what other social media platforms you’re on (too much information can be gathered from different places to make up a complete profile).
• When sharing something online, think about whether it’s something you would be comfortable with everyone knowing. Screenshots and recordings are a real thing.

I don’t want to scare you; I just want you to be as safe as possible, and following these simple tips will help you protect your privacy and keep your personal information safe from prying eyes.

3. Keep things separate

Never give out personal payment links. You always want to use the payment method that your platform uses. However, if the platform lets you use whatever you want, be sure to make a completely separate Cash App account just for this purpose (as well as a separate email address that you use just for this type of work).

4. Set boundaries

This is not only advice for you to give clients but also for you to follow. Only discuss topics that you are comfortable with. Usually, you stay away from topics like religion, politics, and any illegal activities like drugs, as well as topics that you aren’t into.

If someone starts talking about these things, it’s okay for you to say. “I’m not interested in that; let’s talk about XYZ instead.” You don’t need to give a reason; just redirect the conversation.

Likewise, if you feel them pull away from the conversation, you must pick up on those cues and change the topic.

How to be great at sexting

Sexting is an art, and like any art, it takes practice to perfect. Here are a few tips to help you become a master of flirtation…

If on the phone:

1. Have a good connection; static isn’t sexy

2. Don’t be too loud; no one wants a burst eardrum.

3. Practise your sexy voice; check out this class – Voice Training – Develop A Deeper, Sexy & Charismatic Voice

4. Use dead air sparingly – you’re the one getting paid, so it’s your job to keep the conversation moving. If the person is quiet on the other end, that’s okay; keep going unless they tell you to stop or change.

If you’re texting:

1. Avoid text talk – This means using full words. Avoid shortening words, using slang, and use emojis sparingly. You don’t want to come off as immature or uneducated.

2. Get yourself ready – If you’re not in the mood, try watching videos to get yourself “ready” for sexting.

3. Be descriptive – you’ll want to paint a good visual of your surroundings and your outfit. Instead of saying, “I’m wearing black underwear,” you could say, “I’m wearing sheer black lace thong, it fits low on my hips and barely covers me, if I pull the strap, it rubs just right.” See the difference?

4. Don’t hog it – If they are eager, then let them take the lead on where they want the convo to go. But have a few standby scenarios in your head in case things cool down.

If on video/webcam:

1. Make eye contact – eye contact is essential for online flirting; it shows interest and creates a connection.

2. Don’t show it all off right at the beginning; learn to be a tease and draw out the suspense in the beginning. You want them to be begging for it.

3. Have a clean room/background – no one likes a slob

4. Make sure there are no distractions – like lots of noise and other people in the background.

5. Be well groomed – you don’t need full makeup and a fresh blowout. But make sure your hair is brushed, your face is clean (brush your teeth), and have clean clothes free of rips or stains.

6. It never hurts to have a few props – be it a costume, some body oil, toys, etc. Body jewelry is very flattering and can make you feel like a million bucks! Here are some fun options…

7. Focus on what makes you feel beautiful – if you don’t feel beautiful (and feel awkward or self-conscious), it will show. Now, this takes time and practice. Many women work as freelance models initially, which helps you know great poses and camera angles.

Here are some helpful classes then can help you get comfortable posing and being on camera…

• Boudoir Photography: Flattering the Female Form
• Getting Started With Portrait Retouching in Photoshop
• iPhone Photography: How to Take Pro Photos On Your iPhone

FAQ on getting paid to flirt

What kind of fetishes can I expect?

There are a lot of different fetishes (more than I ever realized).

According to FutureMethod here are the 10 top US fetishes…

1. Masochism: Masochists derive pleasure from receiving pain.
2. Group Sex: Group sex involves threesomes, foursomes, and orgies
3. Sadism: Sadists derive pleasure from inflicting pain on a sexual partner.
4. Sports Gear: Sports gear enthusiasts find sports uniforms, pads, boots, cleats, straps, and other equipment to be erotic, especially when worn on themselves or their sexual partners.
5. Armpits: Licking, kissing, and even penetrating are involved for those who enjoy armpit play.
6. Balloons: Also referred to as “looners,” some people enjoy blowing up and popping balloons during playtime.
7. BDSM: BDSM involves erotic roleplaying in bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other sexual roles.
8. Suits: If seeing someone in a uniform or business suit arouses you, you might have a suit kink.
9. Used Underwear: It’s exactly how it sounds. Some people enjoy smelling, licking, and using used underwear for sexual gratification.
10. Voyeurism: A voyeur is someone who derives sexual pleasure from watching others get it on, though it’s important to note this must be consensual.

Social media influences a lot these days; let’s take a look at what’s trending right now…

#fetish #feet #bdsm #kink #gay #sexy #latex #bondage #footfetish #toes #kinky #leather #foot #bdsmcommunity #model #footfetishnation #feetporn #slave #lingerie #soles #rubber #heels #mistress #latexfetish #highheels #fashion #instagay #gayfetish #submissive #legs #photography #fetishmodel #feetfetishworld #onlyfans #nylon #femdom #findom #dom #follow #feetfetish #boots #sub #girl #pantyhose #gayboy #feetworship #goddess #gear #hot #stockings #feetlovers #instagood #dominatrix #prettyfeet #rubberfetish #feetpics

That’s a lot (but many of those hashtags revolve around the same thing (i.e., feet).

At the end of the day

So if you’re looking for a fun way to make money online and you like making people happy, then this could be a golden ticket! The great thing about getting paid to sext is that you can work from anywhere with an internet connection. That means no more fighting traffic or working odd hours just to make ends meet. You get to set your own schedule and decide who you want to talk to.

Isn’t it time you allowed yourself to have some naughty fun and make some extra cash? Thousands of people are out there who are willing to pay to text with someone like you, so what are you waiting for?

What do you think about getting paid to sext?