Planning for a debt-free Christmas has never been easier!
This is the 2nd part of the Christmas Budget series: Your Ultimate Guide to a Stress-Free & Debt Free Christmas! Part one Why Summer is the Perfect Time to Start Saving Money for Christmas was just the ramp-up to our actual Christmas budget post (this one)!
Christmas is a time of joy, excitement, tasty treats, corny movies, and debt. Debt? Ya, they call it the Christmas Debt Hangover, that doesn’t sound pretty, does it? Unlike the regular kind of hangover, this one grows interest month after month (like a fungus, yuck!) instead of just a headache and sour tummy for one day.
To avoid the dreaded Christmas debt hangover, there’s just one thing you need to do. Make a holiday budget! (You didn’t just hiss at me, did you?) 🙂 I get it, the word “budget” has a pretty lame reputation among the masses, unless you’re a budget nerd, like me. But hear me out. After reading this post, you will absolutely be game for making your own!
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Firstly, if you haven’t checked out the previous post on why Saving Ahead for Christmas is the smartest idea out there, then pause this on this and…
As it’s step 1 in our 5 part process! Now, you don’t have to have your planning session precisely on July 24th (Christmas in July), it’s just a fun date, and if it works in your plans then great!
You could do this anytime in the summer, but just don’t wait too long, or it will be Thanksgiving before you know it! Okay, now on to the actual Christmas budget part.
Step 4 – Planning your holiday on a budget
Plan for the Christmas you do & don’t want
During holiday movie #3, I want you to grab your holiday budget and start to think about what you want this holiday to look like…
- low key and relaxed
- travel to see family
- full of holiday events
- heartfelt family traditions
- lots of presents or minimal gifts
- DIY gifts (i.e. cookies & treats)
- a season of giving (either community service or gifts, or both!)
Think of what you DO want and what you don’t want as well. For example, I don’t want to have scheduled obligations every weekend in December. I want half of the weekends to be spent relaxing at home.
Whatever you want, I want you to write it down! Now think of how are you going to make that happen?
Look at last year’s holiday credit card bill
Sometimes we forget about the small things that came up during the year, so pull out your resources (aka Decembers debit and credit card statement from last year).
Do you see any charges from events that you want to repeat this year? Or any charitable giving donations you want to continue? Or see any charges from stores that you totally want to avoid? Look at the numbers, get a rough idea of what you spent, and use it as a guide for this year.
Maybe you want to decrease that amount by half, or 25% less. Or just cancel out a specific category. That most important part is that you decide on an amount that you are comfortable with! Not an amount that just happens as you get the bill in January! You need to plan it, and then stick with it (the hard part).
The true meaning of Christmas
There is no wrong or right answer as to a specific amount you should spend. Don’t let your neighbor’s huge decoration display sway your decision! And don’t feel bad if it’s not as much as it was in years previous. Everyone always says it’s not the price tag that matters; it’s the thought and effort into coming up with a meaningful gift!
(If you’re not sure what to ask for yourself, but still want some mystery, be sure to check out I did on getting the perfect gift for us Moms, or the ‘What do I Even Want for Christmas post! So many great ideas that still leave room for a personal touch!
Okay, back to the meaning of Christmas, I want to make two points.
- As I mentioned above, how much something costs (or how elaborate and fancy is it) doesn’t matter! Not at all!
- A gift given out of obligation isn’t really a gift. Read that again, and think about it. Don’t buy gifts because you have to, buy gifts either because you want to share something great that you like, or you want to show someone that you thought they’d like _____ because of _____.
If you find it hard not to get people gifts, then consider the DIY route. Be it homemade cookie mix in a cute jar, a beautiful potted plant from your own yard (I have a shoot-off of my grandmother’s lilac bush, and I love it!) Or a family heirloom passed down through generations. Read here for more ideas on how to cut back how much you spend on presents.
The meaning of Christmas is (in my humble opinion to spend time with your family, cherish the bond, and make new memories that you’ll cherish for years to come. The holidays are also (obviously) a religious time of year to celebrate the birth of Jesus and reconnect with your values.
It’s also a time to share your heart and time with those around you. Especially those less fortunate, and celebrate those who serve. Consider doing a Meals on Wheels Route together as a family, or bake cookies for your local fire station.
Whatever “it is” that you hold dear, this is the time to celebrate it and honor it. This isn’t a time to show your sister-in-law how big your walk-in closet is or the designer clothes you got to wear to Christmas parties(Total generalization and stereotype about the exact opposite meaning of Christmas.)
Plan out this year’s Christmas budget
Now let’s think about the details and fill in the budget category sections of the workbook. How much do you want to budget on the main holiday spending categories…
- Thanksgiving dinner (the kickoff to the holidays)
- Who do you need to buy presents for (family, friends, teachers, etc.)
- Gift budget per person
- Stockings budget
- Christmas decorations – tree, lights, ornaments, etc
- Christmas misc supplies (pantry ingredients for baking, Christmas cards & stamps, wrapping paper, etc
- Christmas events that cost money
- Christmas donations
- Travel expenses
- Christmas breakfast
- Christmas dinner
- Christmas cookies & treats
Fill out each section and be specific about the dollar amounts of each and the totals. If the dollar amount gave you a slight panic attack, review it and see where you can pare down costs. Remember, a gift doesn’t need to be expensive to mean something to you and the person you give it to! Some of the best presents are just the little things, things that let someone know that you care.
if you want to go the extra mile, you can plan for all of the Q4 holidays – Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas with help from this post on how you can really enjoy the holidays again by making the entire Q4 as seamless as possible.
Ways to cut back on your holiday budget
You can have a frugal Christmas in any number of ways! Here are just a few ideas…
- Gift Giving; embrace the Rule of 4! I’m not sure where it started, but the Rule of 4 is simple. Instead of giving lots of gifts for your immediate family, you give one gift for each:
- something they need
- something they want
- something to wear
- something to read
- Christmas potluck dinner
- no travel (this might be an excellent option for those that always fly to Grandmas house)
- Do only one event that costs money and then focus on free & frugal activities for the rest!
- No new decorations, try cutting some greenery instead to decorate your home, twined with pretty red ribbon or jingle bells. Or better yet, ask your local Buy Nothing Facebook group if people want to do a holiday decor swap!
- only give DIY gifts to outside family members – cookies & treats
Not sure what you want for Christmas? Even if you don’t “need” anything, you should ask for one of these perfect gifts for moms! Don’t worry, the surprise won’t be ruined, you ask for a type of item, and the gift-giver has to think of the gift to fit the category!
Step 5. How to stick to your Christmas budget
Sticking to your budget is the hardest part of the equation! You always hear about the best-laid plans… that are forgotten about a few weeks after being made. Don’t let that happen to you!
There are a few tricks that you can do to help keep you on the straight & narrow!
Use Christmas cash envelopes
The cash envelope system of budgeting is one of the best ways to budget your money! It works because once the envelope is empty, you can’t spend any more. The money is gone, end of story! (please don’t borrow from your other envelopes, that is cheating, and cheating gets you nowhere!) If you really want this to work, then you have to play by the rules!
So you save your money for Christmas, in all one “bucket” and then come shopping time (say the weekend before Black Friday you divvy the funds up into each of your holiday cash envelops! I’ve included six festive Christmas cash envelope patterns in the Christmas Budget Workbook; some categories could be…
- Christmas breakfast/dinner
- fun family events – zoo lights, Polar Express event, pictures with Santa, Christmas plays or concerts
- crafting & baking fun
- travel expenses
- holiday vacation
- holiday date night
- tree & decorations
- charitable giving & random acts of kindness
If carrying all that cash around worries you, you can do what I do. As the holidays get closer, I buy a prepaid credit card for gifts (so I can buy gifts online as well). Remember when choosing your prepaid credit card, be sure to read the fine print and look at the fees charged. You can usually find a Visa or MC that just has the initial loading fee of $5 or so.
Keep your eye on the prize
This is all about reminding yourself why you started this in the first place. Remember, the promises that you make to yourself are the most important. I repeat…
The promises that you make to yourself are the most important!
So get a reminder handy of why you want to have a debt-free Christmas. Be it…
- Last year’s credit card bill from all your holiday spending (gulp!)
- A picture of the place you want to go on vacation to next spring (but you won’t be able to afford to go if you don’t keep yourself in check)
- Your favorite picture of your family together, this is good if you want a more minimal and less commercial Christmas.
So really think about why you want this and then get a visual reminder of it.
Get a Christmas budget buddy
Now, doesn’t that sounds fun! HA! It does kind of sound fun if you have the right friend with the same goals as you. You can help each other stay strong while shopping on Black Friday, or you can help each other make different DIY gifts for each other to give out. For example, one of you bakes your famous chocolate chip cookies, and the other makes your grandmother’s butter cookie recipe. Then trade half so you can each give out a cookie platter.
At the end of the day
By the end of Christmas movie #3, you should have your holiay budget and all set (or a really good approximation), in addition to your savings plan from Step 2 & 3.
I’m just really excited that come January; you will have no fear of your credit card bill! The holidays will be a lot more enjoyable & relaxed when you know that there’s not going to be sticker shock later on. I just want you to enjoy the season and feel damn proud that you made your stress free (debt-free) Christmas on a budget happen!
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